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"Women Swingers" have a role that has been greatly evolving over the past 30 or 40 years in swinging. It is not only common, but often times expected that women take the assertive role in choosing "sex partners" and setting boundaries and limits. Swinging allows women and men to explore alternate sex-roles.

Playing Truth or Dare can be a good ice breaker. Strip Poker is another good game that can be played to set the mood.

Adult Dating is ust so much more fun than teenager dating. Your date doesn't have to run the parent gauntlet before you go out and you don't have to be home by 11pm. This is the time to make your own rules. Twosome, threesome, foursome, MOREsome.

"Jealousy" can be a harsh reality in The Lifestyle. Both men and women should be on guard, as they could become jealous as soon as their swinging fantasy becomes a reality and they watch as their spouse begin to fondle or even flirt with another person. Many couples are able to work through the jealousy and get to a place where they really enjoy swinging.

I believe that the prevalence of bi-women compared to bi-men is a result of cultural bias. Think about the way we look at bi-sexuality, Bi-sexual women are SEXY Bisexual men are SCARYThere is so much fear of male alternate sexuality, it takes tremendous courage to express it anywhere, even on a Swingers com site such as this. Women traditionally accommodate their men. Perhaps their bi-experiences begin that way, but I think women are able to think more creatively about emotional issues and so are more likely to express curiosity, inclination, and attraction for the same sex. I used to say I wasn't bi, necessarily, I just had no gender prejudices. :-) Then I realized after having played with more than a dozen women, I wasn't just without prejudice, I genuinely enjoyed sex with women in a playful setting. I just didn't want to marry them. :-)

When you graph the heartbeat of a healthy person it produces an image that dances all over the page. But when you approach death your heart becomes like a metronome with a monotonous beat. So, a really regular heartbeat reveals a life of sameness and smallness. Swingers really know how to dance. I've never been to a swingers club where the exuberance and joy of being with others didn't explode on the dance floor. And the energy it raises just ignites the entire room. Young in heart, young in mind. There is no better place to be than in a Swinger Community that will keep you dancing a long time.