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Seeing your spouse pleasuring and being pleasured by someone else can be a real eye opener, it can be difficult the first time. I agree that as a couple you should not be looking for something better than what you have in your relationship together but you must prepare yourselves for the reactions that you will see in your spouse/partner from the pleasures of a possible new technique by an added swinging partner. In making love together there are times, depending on your sexual positions that you cannot see the expressions of your spouse. Prepare yourselves for these expressions when seeing him/her with an added partner. One enhancement while swinging that my husband loves is that he has the opportunity to see me fully in positions with others, allowing him to see ALL of my expressions that maybe he has missed when he and I are alone making love together. Do not expect to be totally comfortable the first time but if swinnging is for you, you will continue to look toward your next experience.

Adult Dating is ust so much more fun than teenager dating. Your date doesn't have to run the parent gauntlet before you go out and you don't have to be home by 11pm. This is the time to make your own rules. Twosome, threesome, foursome, MOREsome.

The first time I ever went to a swingers club, I didn't go there to swing. I was a professional BDSM switch and I used to occasionally work with a Mistress. She called me and asked if I wanted to do some public play with a cross-dresser from out of town. He could never go out dressed where he lived, so being seen by others was a great turn on.

He was tall with great legs. Cross-dressers always have the best legs. They make me jealous. He was all dressed up in heels and hose, in a red dress, with a blond wig. We went to 2Risque in Atlanta, Georgia. Everyone there was friendly and open to us doing a little BDSM play.

He sat down on a barstool and I took a 30 foot latex strap about 3 inches wide and tied him to the chair with his legs spraddled wide open. I then took a knife and cut off his hose, and played with him with various toys. The local swingers were kind enough to stop by, fondle him, and give him lots of sweet attention. We had a great time, and he went home very happy.

Rules are often set between partners prior to "swinging". "No means No" is a rule that ALL swingers should follow. But other rules can be set about respect, jealousy, privacy, and even code words or signs.

Most Swinger clubs do not allow males to attend without a female partner. Some however do allow males to attend solo on certain nights only. I advise you to never have preconceived expectations of sexual encounters when attending any swinging function. More than likely you will leave unhappy. Attend to meet and mingle with others and if a sexual experience happens, COOL. Becoming a swinger in most instances will not deplete your sexual frustrations overnight, actually it may take time and patience to connect with added partners.

If you want your sex personals profile to be effective you must realize that sex is a vehicle. The destination is up to you. You can use sex as an art, a sport, a path to enlightenment, a ritual, a sacrament, an ego pig-out or a weapon, just to name a few. The important thing to know is what is it for you and are you articulating your wants/need/desires to the person/persons you are asking to get into the vehicle with you. So, know yourself. Be honest. Be real. Just being polite or nice doesn't work. Being nice is like faking orgasm, it benefits no one. Being real is more likely to help you and your partners fulfill their innermost desires. Then, remember to be kind. We are all different and when we honor each other's differences we make the world a better place.