My Swingers Experiences

Swingers Experience: club international adult magazine

club international adult magazine

"The Lifestyle", for many couples, increases happiness and contentedness in their relationship as well as a better awareness of themselves and their spouse. Many couples in the lifestyle also report more closeness, less role playing, and a more equal partnership.

Swingers Parties are an opportunity to dress in your sexiest outfit. If you're a guy, wear what you'd wear on a first date when you are trying to impress someone. If you're a girl, it's time to bring out the Valentine underwear. Since you may spend part of the evening in the nude., it is good to bring a robe so you won't have to put all your clothing on to go to the clothed part of the Swing Club. Avoid wearing expensive jewelry which may become lost during the fun. Many Swingers Clubs have theme parties. So, dress the part, you are bringing excitement and adventure into your life, so step outside the ordinary.

Adult Dating is ust so much more fun than teenager dating. Your date doesn't have to run the parent gauntlet before you go out and you don't have to be home by 11pm. This is the time to make your own rules. Twosome, threesome, foursome, MOREsome.

"Male Swingers", whether married or single, often find The Lifestyle to be an amazing experience. Although women usually lead in "The Swinging Lifestyle", the man is often the one to introduce their wives and/or girlfriends to The Lifestyle. Often, men that are not active in The Lifestyle would be if only they could find a partner who was ready and willing. Guilt also plays a factor in stopping men and women alike from swinging.

Swinging is a social activity. Ordinary social customs of being polite, initiating conversations, being a good listener, and the ability to form friendships are all needed characteristics to enjoy your Swing Cub experience. Before you go, discuss the desired outcome of the evening with your partner. Are you comfortable saying yes and if one says know will your partner back you up and not try to coerce you? What sort of safety precautions will you take? Be prepared. Don't rely on someone else to guard your life. If you have friends who attend a club, try to go with them a few times. It will help you to not be nervous.

When introuducing new sexual experiences with your partner, you must always "build her up" make sure she knows that to you, she is the sexiest woman in the world. But there is only so much you can say and do. Women who may be battling with self esteem issues seem to overlook the compliments of the ones who love them the most. In her mind, you certainly will not tell her that she is not attractive. I'm sure she appreciates the compliments but she probably simply does not believe them. Hearing compliments from others will help her. I hear day after day from women in the lifestyle that swinging has opened them up and given them self esteem, allowed them to let go and enjoy not only sex but life in general so much more. There is such a variety of people in the swinging community that superficial issues such as weight, skin color, sexual preference etc etc just doesn't seem to matter. I suggest that you talk with her, show her this forum and try to make her understand that she does not have to be "perfect" to enjoy the two of you swinging together. None of us are perfect and actually swinging would be so very boring if we were.

The first time I ever went to a swingers club, I didn't go there to swing. I was a professional BDSM switch and I used to occasionally work with a Mistress. She called me and asked if I wanted to do some public play with a cross-dresser from out of town. He could never go out dressed where he lived, so being seen by others was a great turn on.

He was tall with great legs. Cross-dressers always have the best legs. They make me jealous. He was all dressed up in heels and hose, in a red dress, with a blond wig. We went to 2Risque in Atlanta, Georgia. Everyone there was friendly and open to us doing a little BDSM play.

He sat down on a barstool and I took a 30 foot latex strap about 3 inches wide and tied him to the chair with his legs spraddled wide open. I then took a knife and cut off his hose, and played with him with various toys. The local swingers were kind enough to stop by, fondle him, and give him lots of sweet attention. We had a great time, and he went home very happy.