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"Jealousy" can be a harsh reality in The Lifestyle. Both men and women should be on guard, as they could become jealous as soon as their swinging fantasy becomes a reality and they watch as their spouse begin to fondle or even flirt with another person. Many couples are able to work through the jealousy and get to a place where they really enjoy swinging.

If you want your sex personals profile to be effective you must realize that sex is a vehicle. The destination is up to you. You can use sex as an art, a sport, a path to enlightenment, a ritual, a sacrament, an ego pig-out or a weapon, just to name a few. The important thing to know is what is it for you and are you articulating your wants/need/desires to the person/persons you are asking to get into the vehicle with you. So, know yourself. Be honest. Be real. Just being polite or nice doesn't work. Being nice is like faking orgasm, it benefits no one. Being real is more likely to help you and your partners fulfill their innermost desires. Then, remember to be kind. We are all different and when we honor each other's differences we make the world a better place.

"Swinging" can be a terrific experience for all involved. Just remember to do your best to respect everyone's feelings and wishes. Happy Swinging!

Never take a risk of relying on others to determine your safety. Safety starts with YOU! To ensure a safe swinging relationship, be certain your relationship is a solid strong one and that you are swinging for all the right reasons. Sexually speaking, practice safe sex. Use condoms as well as skin barriers for protection. Always think for yourself and never allow others to persuade you.

I looked up swing in a dictionary recently. There were 22 different definitions, some verbs, some nouns. My favorite one is to live in a lively, modern, relaxed style. A swinger has all these attributes. He wants to live life, not watch it or let it pass by. She's a forward thinker, able to think outside the box. They really appreciate the pleasurable, physical, part of life. This relaxed attitude allows them to connect with others in meaningful ways.

First please allow me to say that becoming involved in the swinging lifestyle seeking something that a spouse isn't capable of giving, will not give or thinks he/she cannot give is risky and is swinging for ALL the wrong reasons. You both need to communicate and understand this. This alone is a basis for halting your swinging activities. Try to make him understand that you do not feel a need to be "taken care of" that the pressure to perform is becoming overwhelming for you. Communicate together on techniques that can be learned to enhance your intimacy together. There are many solutions leading to sexual pleasure in dealing with health issues. Seek those solutions together and help him to gain his self esteem back. Swinging is the very last thing that your relationship needs at this point. Allow him to see this forum, hopefully it will assist in helping him to understand your feelings.