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mature adult personals
I looked up swing in a dictionary recently. There were 22 different definitions, some verbs, some nouns. My favorite one is to live in a lively, modern, relaxed style. A swinger has all these attributes. He wants to live life, not watch it or let it pass by. She's a forward thinker, able to think outside the box. They really appreciate the pleasurable, physical, part of life. This relaxed attitude allows them to connect with others in meaningful ways.
Decide what your swinging style is. All of these are acceptable behaviors. Just know what you want and be able to express it. I believe that the prevalence of bi-women compared to bi-men is a result of cultural bias. Think about the way we look at bi-sexuality, Bi-sexual women are SEXY Bisexual men are SCARYThere is so much fear of male alternate sexuality, it takes tremendous courage to express it anywhere, even on a Swingers com site such as this. Women traditionally accommodate their men. Perhaps their bi-experiences begin that way, but I think women are able to think more creatively about emotional issues and so are more likely to express curiosity, inclination, and attraction for the same sex. I used to say I wasn't bi, necessarily, I just had no gender prejudices. :-) Then I realized after having played with more than a dozen women, I wasn't just without prejudice, I genuinely enjoyed sex with women in a playful setting. I just didn't want to marry them. :-)
I believe that the prevalence of bi-women compared to bi-men is a result of cultural bias. Think about the way we look at bi-sexuality, Bi-sexual women are SEXY Bisexual men are SCARYThere is so much fear of male alternate sexuality, it takes tremendous courage to express it anywhere, even on a Swingers com site such as this. Women traditionally accommodate their men. Perhaps their bi-experiences begin that way, but I think women are able to think more creatively about emotional issues and so are more likely to express curiosity, inclination, and attraction for the same sex. I used to say I wasn't bi, necessarily, I just had no gender prejudices. :-) Then I realized after having played with more than a dozen women, I wasn't just without prejudice, I genuinely enjoyed sex with women in a playful setting. I just didn't want to marry them. :-)
Adult Dating is ust so much more fun than teenager dating. Your date doesn't have to run the parent gauntlet before you go out and you don't have to be home by 11pm. This is the time to make your own rules. Twosome, threesome, foursome, MOREsome.
Kisses... ~ Miranda |
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